Thursday, June 2, 2011

Save a Marriage ? Help to Save My Sexless Marriage ...

Many experts say that good communication and friendship forms a more lasting bond between married couples than does sexual attraction. While that may be true, sex is vital to a marriage relationship. Life gets busy. Our attention to work, keeping up a home, and raising children tends to force us to take the focus off of our spouses for extended periods of time. Sometimes sexual urges seem to diminish as we grow used to each other and our sex life becomes routine. Another factor that can cloud our physical passion is medications. Everything from blood pressure medications to antidepressants to contraceptives can have sexual side effects.

It is common knowledge that women take longer to get to the ready-for-sex state than men. A lot of marriage advice in this area puts the spotlight on the men. Keeping the passion flowing takes effort from both partners.

One way a woman can elicit arousal ahead of time is to use her husband?s cologne. Dab a small amount on the back of the hand or on a tissue and take a whiff several times throughout the day. Your sense of smell will arouse feelings of being close to your husband during the day when you are apart.

Gentlemen, stall your engines! You love your wife. You find her very attractive. You want to have sex with her. Wonderful! Don?t just dive in, though. You know that if she is enjoying sex, it causing you to be even more satisfied. Allow the passion to build. Become her favorite masseur. A neck or back rub, if she enjoys that kind of thing is a wonderful propellant to intimacy. Your wife needs to be relaxed and stress free in order to enjoy sex.

For both husband and wife, take care of yourselves. Get moving. Exercise gets the heart pumping at an optimum rate increasing circulation. Watch your diet, resolve to eat healthier together. Do not slack on appearance either, frump and sloppiness is not attractive even if you have been married 50 years. Take care to look nice for your spouse.

As for some of those medications that you may take to keep up your health, ask your doctor for advice for help in dealing with the sexual side effects.

While you are taking care of the emotional and psychological side of your relationship, don?t neglect the physical side.

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  4. The Essence of Genuine Friendship in Marriage
  5. Is Your Marriage Suffering From Emotional Infidelity?

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2006 Ford GTX1 again.......

I worked on this car last November. Since then the owner had some paint work done and to say the least the customizing shop destroyed the finish on this rare 1 of 35 built GTX1.

The lower graphics were painted on but for some reason they decided to take a wool pad to the rest of the car.

The owner also decided to have all lenses tinted including the headlights.

The car was to be displayed at Down Town Disney for the Car Masters Show.

The car was shipped to me from Tampa since the show was local to me.

I retrieved the car from the transport lot on a Monday night and had to have it done by Saturday morning.

All said and done a total of 80 hours were spent restoring this beauty to a proper state.

Coming off the truck.

Safe and sound at my place.

Got started the next morning.

Inside after the wash and decontamination process the real condition of the finish is revealed.

Headlight cover was marred as well.

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Why it is Important to Update Internet Security Software ...

If you own a computer, do business with it and is online most of the time, you should be primarily concerned of the security of your computer. The great news is there is a number of comprehensive internet security software that you can take advantage of. If giving your computer sufficient security is not something you are serious about, you are more likely be facing a lot of problems along the way which may have drastic effect to the computer.

The market offers plethora of options that are designed to provide protection into your system and Norton Internet Security Suite software is one of them. In order for your computer to have an increased level of protection, it is important for them to be updated on a regular basis. The great thing about this software is it actually has new features that will add substantial security to your PC. The software is powered by several updates to different technology. There are also new functions incorporated in the update.

Updates are very important because viruses and malicious applications are also updating. They get stronger by the minute and if your antivirus is not updated, it will be impossible for it to defeat those viruses. The creators of the viruses designed them to be powerful that it can wreck havoc into your computer. It is therefore wise to get your internet security updated as often as possible.

The best thing that updating internet security can do is it warns you of the program behavior of malware issues. With the new update of Norton Internet Security Software, the settings pane can be set to aggressiveness enabling protective measures.

The latest version of the software provides a stronger and more comprehensive protection against stubborn viruses. Norton ensures that their latest version can offer you maximum protection and will shield your computer against possible attacks and intrusions. This helps you go online even without the hassles of viruses getting into your system secretly.

When installing an internet security, it comes along with the responsibility of updating it as often as you can. It has to serve its purpose of protecting your computer against viruses and all sorts of infection.
While viruses and malicious programs update everyday, it really makes a lot of sense of internet security suite to also get updated so you can use the internet, do businesses and others without being affected by viruses.

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Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Book Review: Bloody Truth About Cyprus ? 2.0: The Blogmocracy

Gates of Vienna: The Ravaging of Cyprus

The following book review was originally published at Europe News by Henrik R?der Clausen.


Book essay: The bloody truth about Cyprus
by Henrik R?der Clausen

Bloody Truth

Nicosia, March 2009. ISBN 9789963962204

Bloody TruthThe apparently endless stalemate on Cyprus is getting a thorough treatment in the publication by the organization ?Freedom and Justice for Cyprus?. While the documentation of what went down through the 1960?s and 1970?s is shocking and brutal, the real coup of the book is that it goes back to the 1950?s, once and for all settling the question of who originally created the conflict in Cyprus: It wasn?t the ?Turkish? Cypriots. Nor was it Turkey. It was, documentably, Great Britain.

The book has a cover as brutal as the title, an image of Cyprus with blood dripping from the north into the southern part. Based on this, one might expect it to contain a vitriolic anti-Turkish diatribe, but this isn?t really the case. In spite of some linguistic excesses, such as the phrase ?The Turkish Propaganda Machine?, the book in general sticks to the documentation of events and developments on the ground, and thus becomes a valuable resource for understanding the current stalemate, as well as for assessing the merits of various proposed solutions.

As for who sowed the seeds of the current problems, the book is clear: It was not Turkey, nor Turkish Cypriots, it was Great Britain. Seeking a way to maintain the colonial rule established in 1923, Britain feared a united Cypriot opposition to their rule, and gradually worked to strengthen the Muslim/Turkish identity of the Muslim Cypriots. That included construction of new mosques in villages without any, initiating the use of the term ?Turkish Cypriots?, and later requesting Turkey to reclaim rule of the island, an idea initially received with disinterest by the Turkish government.

However, a committee on the subject was formed in July 1955, and in 1956, professor Nihat Erim was appointed special advisory on the Cyprus issue. In November and December 1956, he released two reports endorsing an active Turkish engagement in Cyprus, aiming first at a division of the island into Greek and Turkish parts (termed ?Taksin?), and to work long-term for a full Turkish takeover. This policy was adopted by the Turkish government, and has been followed by various Turkish governments ? civilian or military ? since then.

The book details chronology of various Greek and Turkish groups formed in the late 1950?s, including EOKA (Greek), VOLCAN (Turkish) and TMT (Turkish). Their chronology is particular important, for it is useful in weeding out honest statements from deceitful ones. This includes Turkish statements about the ?Bloodthirsty Makarios?, the work by Rauf Denktash to turn TMT into an underground Turkish organization, the killing of Turkish voices other than those of TMT, and the efforts to make Turkish Cypriots segregate themselves from the Greek Cypriots. The tacit approval of the British in this marks a low point of harmful colonial divide-and-rule strategies.

Descriptions of events after 1962 are somewhat more sketchy. The proposed constitutional changes in 1963 play a central role, and the efforts by the TMT to segregate the Greek and Turkish are recorded in a very varied degree of detail. The Turkish bombardment of Tylleria in August 1964 is mentioned, but the heavy fighting in the preceding months are not. Advance references to the 2004 Annan Plan and similar chronological leaps are annoying, in spite of their relevance. The 1974 invasion is likewise accounted for in an unsystematic way, jumping rapidly from overall descriptions to individual tales of mass rapes and executions by the Turkish soldiers.

The real strength of this book is the wealth of original sources ? British, Cypriot, Turkish ? drawn in and quoted here. Many common fallacies and outright lies are dismantled, and for this reason it is easy to forgive the somewhat uneven narrative of the book. Harder to forgive is the lack of illustrations. Some maps providing an overview of violent incidents and the 1974 invasion would be welcome, as would some tables with statistics.

This book provides essential background information for the situation in Cyprus. It has its strength in quoting vital original documents in their proper context, showing a clear route from British colonial machinations to direct Turkish involvement, and provides an indispensable understanding of many key events. On the other hand, it is jumpy, both chronologically and emotionally, clearly one-sided, and skips chunks of history needed for a full account of the developments.

Review opinion: 4/6

If you have interest in the Cyprus conflict, adding this book to your collection is recommended, in particular because it provides crucial information regarding the role played by the British.

For those interested, more details out of ?Bloody Truth?, and some closing comments:

In 1878, Cyprus was ceded from Ottoman to British rule, initially as a long-term lease agreement. The Cypriots, having been ruled by the Ottomans since 1571, welcomed the change, rejoicing in a European power coming back to Cyprus, setting the hopes for eventually establishing a modern, independent Cypriot state, much as countries in the Balkans during the 19th century had cast off centuries of brutal Ottoman rule and restored their independence.

Independence and self-determination were not in the cards for Cyprus, however. Even after World War I, when the Wilsonian Principles of self-determination of the peoples led to dismantling of empires and the re-establishment of multiple nation-states, Cyprus was not one of the states to return to independence. Rather, it became a British crown colony in 1925, after Turkey in the Treaty of Lausanne had relinquished all interests in the island.

Maintaining colonial rule was growing increasingly difficult, however, and not least in a country that considered itself part of the Western civilization, the Greek in particular. Great Britain set out to do what it had done so successfully elsewhere, to divide and rule. Strengthening the Islamic identity of the Muslims in Cyprus was deemed essential to this, and to do so, Britain initiated construction of mosques in many villages that had never had one.

Opening the door for Turkey

Then [BT: Page 208], on June 8th 1949 came a note in the minority newspaper ?Halkni Sesi?: It reported that the British Governor R. E. Turnbull requested the term ?Muslims of Cyprus? to be replaced with the currently used ?Turkish Cypriots?. This seemingly insignificant change of terms in time brought about a change in perception, that the Muslims in Cyprus were Turks, and thus that Turkish interference on the island represented a legitimate concern for Turkish citizens.

But that was hard work. As Turkish foreign minister Ali Kuprulu said in 1950:

?For Turkey, there does not exist any Cyprus issue?.

Only in 1954, when Archbishop Makarios with the aid of Greece got Cyprus on the agenda of the United Nations, did help from the British press become sufficient that a Turkish demand to gain control of Cyprus could be raised at the United Nations. This is related in chilling detail on pages 208 through 213, and since the long-term consequences of these machinations are well known, it stands as a sinister example of how to cause severe long-term damage in international relations.

Taking the opportunity

For Turkey was not late in spotting an opportunity to increase regional influence and gain an advance strategic stronghold south of Turkey proper. In 1956, Turkish Prime minister Menderes set out to investigate the potential of getting a foothold in Cyprus. Professor Nihat Erim endorsed the idea, which has remained official Turkish policy since. The aim was to first provoke an ethnic division (Taksin) of Cyprus, then in the long term aim to take over the island entirely.

Turkey didn?t miss the opportunity offered to them by the British, having no particular interest in upholding international law in the process.

Taking up arms

On pages 214 through 231, we get quite a bit of detail about the increasing use (and misuse) of weapons and violence, in particular the formation of the Turkish orgs VOLKAN and TMT. Simultaneously, the armed movement EOKA was formed to dislodge the British colonial rule and replace it with a free and democratic Cypriot state. The story of this struggle is related elsewhere, but it clearly strengthened the British resolve to invite Turkish involvement in Cyprus, for it is much easier to rule over a divided people than a unified one. Thus Britain made Turkey partner in all formal proceedings, and turned a blind eye to Turkey?s creating a paramilitary organization TMT, 10,000 members strong, discreetly armed from Turkey and led by retired Turkish military staff.

Violent acts also took place elsewhere. On September 6th 1955, a minor bomb went off at the house where Kemal Atat?rk was born, and on that pretext, along with pressure from the Turkish group ?Cyprus is Turkish?, the Greek quarter of Istanbul (previously Constantinople) was severely damaged and looted, leading eventually to further ethnic cleansing of the Greek minority there.

The underground army TMT were to play a pivotal role in the following years. The predecessor, VOLKAN, had been partly British directed, but under the excellent leadership of Rauf Denktash, things slipped out of British control to the radical Turkish-supported circle around TMT. With this group systematically killing off Turkish-Cypriot dissent from their radical agenda, including labor union leaders, journalists and others of the opinion that peaceful coexistence between all Cypriots was a preferable option. Thus, TMT and Rauf Denktash managed to establish themselves as the only major voice of the Muslim / Turkish Cypriots. Not exactly democratic, but effective.

Winding up

After the semi-independence of 1960, the book becomes more spotty and could well have covered the events much more systematically. It does, however, bring out a valuable series of mythbusting, including the so-called ?Bathtub murders? in 1963, the bombing of the Bayraktar mosque in Nicosia, the burning of a mosque in 1974, and other incidents staged to escalate Greek-Turkish animosity in ways similar to bombing the birthplace of Kemal Atat?rk, then blaming the Greeks.

The pattern of Turks staging a (minor) event, or exploiting an unrelated crime for propaganda purposes, has been revealed bit by bit many years after they had the desired effect on the ground. Here, for instance, is a report from Today?s Zaman touching on several key events staged by Turkish parts in the conflict.

It is an unfortunate fact that whipping up emotion and confusing the minds of decision-makers can lead to a lot of mistakes in the heat of the moment, leading to the creation of more problems than the existed before, and in particular to situations on the ground that are difficult and/or embarrassing to solve correctly. This has been the case in Cyprus for decades on end.

However, bringing to light the details of past manipulations and mistakes is helpful in the long run, and Bloody Truth, in spites of its flaws, does a good job at delivering facts and details that really should have been out decades ago. It might have been a better book if it had put down a full stop at, say, 1964, leaving coverage of the 1974 Turkish invasion, the 1983 TRNC declaration and the 2004 Annan Plan for future books. But it is plenty readable and useful as it is, and has as its particular strength the extensive use of primary sources.

The path forward

No article about the conflict in Cyprus without outlining some principles about how to proceed, even though it is not directly the subject of Bloody Truth. The developments since the 1950?s has been marked by a never-ending failure to uphold international law, though usually under the pretence of doing so. ?Never let a good crisis go to waste? has been applied repeatedly, all to frequently to crises created by deliberate manipulations. The Annan Plan marks a low point in that development, for as Alfred de Zayas wrote about it:

One year after the vote [the 2004 referendum], upon a calmer rereading of the Annan plan, the non-committed observer may wonder whether anyone could have reasonably expected the Cypriot population in non-occupied Cyprus to vote in favour of a plan that entailed abandoning positions held by the Security Council and the General Assembly since July 1974, and which seriously undermined fundamental principles of international law contained in numerous universal and regional documents.

On the state of international law in the context of Cyprus and Turkish aggression:

Can such grave violations of international law be retroactively legalized ? International law experts hold the view that such violations cannot be legalized. Alas, the situation of violation of international law norms by States ? in total impunity ? is not rare. However, this does not mean that international law has ceased to exist or that these particular norms have ceased to be applicable.

Further:

This Annan Plan is all the more distressing, because it manifests the application of double-standards at the highest level of the United Nations. Ethnic cleansing was condemned at Nuremberg. It is condemned today at The Hague by the International Criminal Tribunal for the Former Yugoslavia. And yet Turkey is allowed to occupy militarily one third of the territory of another European country and to keep the fruits of the crime. Why this double-standard?

In order to uphold international law and the underlying principles of national sovereignty, a solution for Cyprus should be decided upon only by proper citizens of Cyprus ? not Turkish soldiers or illegal settlers ? and should adhere to principles laid down in international law, such as:

1. ? Implementation of all relevant judgments and resolutions of international courts.
2. ? Withdrawal of foreign military forces from Northern Cyprus;
3. ? Withdrawal of illegal settlers in Northern Cyprus, in line with article 49 of the 4th Geneva Convention;
4. ? Recognition of the right of return of all displaced Cypriots; and
5. ? Restitution or compensation to displaced Cypriots for confiscated or destroyed properties.

This is no easy task, for much confidence has been placed in the United Nations, which has not lived up to it. But the underlying principles of international law are not that hard to understand, including not rewarding aggression or letting aggressors keep the fruits of their aggression, as well as the obvious principle of respecting private property. The latter has been made easier by recent court verdicts upholding the property rights of Cypriots who for over 30 years have been kept from using their rightful property by the Turkish occupation forces.
Cyprus has become a test case for honest upholding of international law. So far, it has resulted in many more failures than successes, which is eroding Cypriot confidence in international negotiations and deals to solve their problem. The reality on the ground is what matters to most. This includes the fact that passage to the occupied territory is now legal and easy, that the property rights of Cypriots is being upheld, and that even Turkish Cypriots are protesting the Turkish presence on their island. The hardest issue is the fate of the 200,000+ illegal Turkish settlers in the northern part of Cyprus. That, however, is a problem that the state of Turkey must resolve. For Cyprus belongs to the Cypriots, not to British, Turkey or illegally imported Turkish settlers.

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Asanway ? Blog Archive ? Take a look at Your Self Esteem

Do you?ve hassle touchdown a dream job, maintaining wholesome relationships or simply feeling good about your day-to-day choices? You might undergo from low self-esteem. Testing your shallowness is a straightforward and useful option to discover underlying issues and begin to work on areas that need improvement. Self-esteem checks can be found in many magazines, books and online. Taking these tests could be fun as a result of there actually are no right or unsuitable answers.

Be truthful in your answers. Lying on a vanity check will only result in an incorrect assessment. Don?t waste your time dishonest on the questions; you?ll only be dishonest yourself. If you?re honest and truthful in your answers, you?ll uncover your weaknesses and begin the method of constructing your confidence.

Admit your shortcomings. Earlier than you?ll be able to enhance your confidence, it?s essential to understand that your self-esteem wants improvement. That can be the hardest a part of the entire process. Although no one likes to admit to weaknesses, a really profitable self-esteem exercise would require it. There is no room for vainness should you actually want to improve yourself.

Once you have actually accomplished your self-esteem test, you?ll learn what features of your character that you must focus on. The following step is to use resources akin to self-assist books, movies or audio exercises on tape or CD to assist improve your self worth issues.

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Samsung teases 4G tablet for 2011, Galaxy S III in first half of 2012

Don't expect a lawsuit or two to keep a good chaebol down. Not if J.K. Shin has his way. The president of Samsung's mobile communication division is telling us to expect an "enhanced" LTE Galaxy Tab (without providing any detail) sometime later this year, following the launch of the company's 8.9-inch Tab this summer and 10.1-inch Tab next month -- the latter priced between $499 and $599. Shin said that Samsung is already in talks with US and South Korean carriers to launch the 4G tablet. He also teased a third version of the wildly popular Galaxy S handset series for the first half of 2012. A proclamation arriving on news that the delectable Galaxy S II has just set a record for the fastest selling smartphone in Korea after unloading one million handsets in the first month of domestic sales.

Naturally, Shin also had a bit to say about Samsung's ongoing legal battle with Apple. "We didn't copy Apple's design," he said bluntly, adding that Apple's allegations "will not be legally problematic." Sure Sammy, tell it to the judge.

Update: The Wall Street Journal updated its story calling for the 8.9-inch Galaxy Tab to launch this summer, not in June as originally stated.

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